Thursday, June 01, 2006
xx 11:09 AM xx
this blog is kinda of dedicated to a dear friend of mine & all the others tt were or are currently in the same plight.. ...
i was watching this drama series where i think the male lead said something meaningful...
He said:" whoever was being given up by the other party isn't a loser. During the love process, as we are the ones tt give more to the other party, thus the hurt, jealousy, envy, joy and wateva happiness tt we felt were also double in quantity. This is y we can feel these and yet the other party can't feel or understand us. But it is also becos if the fact we love more than others, we have the additional strength to stand up from the hurt tt was done to us. U can choose to remain at the current position to continue moaning and b sad abt the hurt and let others robbed away what you have worked hard for or choose to b strong to face the reality and let others c u are strong enough to b able to b stand up again and is even a stronger and a better person."
Indeed we often think that it's so unfair.. .. y is it tt we give more and yet we end up being at the losing end more .. ... ..
we have forgotten tt... becos we love more and though the hurts also dbl up, we also received more and become a better person as we understand more abt love and have learnt how to love some1 better.. .. ..
love is like life.. .. it's never fair.. ..
there are pple tt felt in love at first sight or marries the first love and live happily ever after.. .. jus like pple tt are born with a silver spoon in their mouths, are pretty and have the brains & etc.. ..
there are pple tt thought they have found happiness initially but end up in divorce... like pple tt were born rich but squandered of the money and became poor.. .
there are also pple that are repeatedly hurt in love but won't give up abt finding true love and were eventually rewarded.. .. jus like those pple tt have gotten the fruits of success after numerous hardship and failures in their lives.. ..
Okie.. this sounds preachy... but i jus feel that God sent us down to earth for a mission.. that is how u lead ur life fillingly and meaningfully despite the setback you faced.. .. let us all b strong and braved thru wateva storms we have to come across... ..
we jus nd to bear in mind tt it doesn't matter how big or strong the storm is, eventually it will subside and b over.. ..
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