Wednesday, December 14, 2005
xx 9:10 PM xx
2005 has been a year of surprises
both good and bad
i guess i have learnt to appreciate life, friends and family better
i have jus visited a good friend of mine
if there's any1 for me to look up to
i guess she'll definitely b 1 of them
for a simple reason: i admire her approach towards life
she's my Pri sch friend.. ..
she's nw a mother of a pair of twins
She's a veri kind person
so kind tt she won't scold those pple tt called her names.. . .
she came from a humble background....
and she's the eldest in the family.. ..
she has to help out to look after her siblings as her mum's at work and dad's doing odd jobs.. ..
despite tt, she's good in her studies.. .. ever willing to help .. ..
becos of her good natured.. she got bullied by her siblings at times.. ..
but as years goes.. every1 becomes more mature and obedient .. ..
she has a good boss and stable career
it's almost like sweetness in life after the bitterness.. ..
I was jus causally aski how's her brother doing while browsing thru her ROM photos
den she jus asked me in a calm tone tt which brother i'm talking abt as nw she only had one as another died in an accident 2 mths after her ROM
i was shocked.. ..
den she mentioned tt his bike skated and he flew off the bike and got hit by a car
and died.. ..
although there isn't any tone of sadness...
but i guess it's well concealed
it wasn't easy for u, my friend.. ..
first.. the happy marriage den came the tragic death of ur brother and nw being a mother of a pair of twins.. ..
jus by heari how her waterbag burst and how calmly she has reacted is enough for me to admire her ..
really.. she's so calm.. ..
unlike me.. ..
even nw handling her newborns.. though inexperienced, she's calmly handling it and taking it as a new experience for every stage..
tt's life i guess.. ..
dis few yrs i have heard a lot of pple losing their loved ones
it really scare me off.. ..
jus by heari these news is enough for me to feel sad for them .. ..
it makes me realise how fragile life is and how we shld constantly appreciate our loved ones at all times.. ..
last but nt least
i jus wanto say.. ...
my dear friend.. if u ever nd a listening ear or any form of help...
i'll b there for u ....
